Lube can be an intimidating sex accessory if you've never tried it before. Rumors get spread about it, historical marketing campaigns don't always portray it accurately, and it's often located in the ‘Family Planning' section at drugstores - shutting out a large population of consumers. Lubricants are more than just family planning tools or sex accessories. They are essential to a thriving sex life. Wet is here to debunk some of those old school myths and implicit stigmas around lube. Lube isn't just for one type of person or couple, and if you think spit will do the trick just as well, boy are you in for a treat. Here are some common misconceptions about lube and what you can tell the next person who's got it wrong:
While it's true that not all lubes are created equal, or are compatible for every kind of sex, most lubes are perfectly safe to use with either condoms or sex toys. If you are using condoms or silicone toys, avoid oil-based lubricants as they can break down material if used excessively (which we hope for your sake, you are). Instead, try a WET hybrid or water-based lubricant. Both are safe to use. If you are using a glass toy, all lubes are on the table. For more guidelines, check out our educational guide;
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One of the most harmful stereotypes surrounding lube is that it's reserved for people with “issues”. While it's recommended for folks who are post-menopausal or have trouble producing natural, body lubricant, lube is for everyone.
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Because of historical marketing on lube and the fallacies that loom over women that their “wetness” somehow correlates to their attraction, many women shy away from trying lube out for themselves thinking it to be unfeminine. This couldn't be further from the truth. Many women struggle with being turned on and vaginal dryness for various reasons. None of them are linked with being “less feminine” or “less attractive”. It's completely normal. On top of that, even if you don't have an issue with getting naturally wet, lube is still helpful when trying out new things with yourself or your partner. Knowing what you want and how to get to peak satisfaction in your sex life isn't unattractive, it's a power move!
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Lube is necessary for anal sex, that's correct. But it's also great for so many other types of sexual desires and fantasies. Take shower sex, for example. Water can actually dry out our body's natural lubricants and using a silicone or hybrid based lube while in the shower, will actually help you last longer. All sex can be enhanced with lube!
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Many women are nervous to try lube with fear that it will give them an infection. If you are prone to yeast infections, be sure to check the ingredient list when trying out a new lube. While there are some lubes on the market that use glycerin that can cause yeast to develop, other lubricants are vaginally safe to use. But fear not, there are ph-balanced lubricants including this one from WET that are safe.
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Whether it's the stigma that you have an issue if you need lube or you think people will assume you're “too” promiscuous, many people think owning lube is thought of as shameful. The reality is that having a thriving sex life correlates to a healthier lifestyle. If we want to take our mental and physical health seriously, we have to do everything within our control to prioritize our desires. There is nothing shameful about it.
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Like with most sex toys and accessories, looking at ingredients is key, especially if you have sensitive skin or allergies. Having too much friction during sex can lead to irritation, which is what lube is designed to eliminate. However, be sure to look at each label and the base of the lube you purchase to ensure that it will work for you. We recommend testing it out on a small patch of skin before going full throttle.
We aren't sure what lube the people who are spreading this rumor are trying. Most lubes are flavorless. If you want to spice it up with something yummy while you're going down on your partner, Wet offers a variety of flavored lube sure to make you think otherwise.
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Before purchasing your bottle of lube, think about what you will be using it for. If you're using it in the shower, it's not a problem if it's oil-based since there's nothing to stain with water running down your body. But, if you plan on using it on your expensive sheets, make sure you buy a lube that is water-based so you know it won't set into your fabric.
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Lube is not expensive! There are many affordable options on the market including Wet's Luxury Platinum silicone lube. Once you try it and see how much it improves your sex life, you'll want to set up a monthly subscription for the stuff.
Bottom line: If you're curious about lube and are letting these things stop you from trying it, do your research. WET provides a basic guide to understanding how lube will improve your sex life and which lube is right for your needs. Be your own myth buster and try it for yourself!
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Now that it is officially awards season, the following is a list of movies you can watch with your partner and discuss later with your cinephile friends, and it won't be weird. Here are a few of our suggestions based on what you want out of your sexy movie experience.
The Notebook (2004)
Yes, we couldn't let the list exist without mentioning the age-old classic romcom that is The Notebook. We get it, it's basic. But we need to remember sometimes things are popular for a reason. And let us tell you, once you rewatch that scene of Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams on the floor of that old house, you'll want to just turn the movie off right there and head straight to the bedroom. In fact, we recommend doing exactly that since, well, the rest of the movie might put a damper on your night.
Pride and Prejudice (any version will do)
The sexual tension that is built up between the two leads in the different adaptations of these films should be studied. And it probably is. While Pride and Prejudice might be on your syllabus for class, it is the blueprint for that enemies-to-lovers storyline that lends itself so well to a steamy hook up. If you really want to get into it, watch the movie and role play after. Screaming Mr. Darcy's name might be just the thing you or your partner need.
Call Me By Your Name (2017)
If you haven't seen this movie, you've probably at least heard about the peach jokes. A young Timothée Chalamet gets intimate with a peach and movie-goers lives were changed around the globe. But we promise you, there are far sexier scenes than just that. The chemistry between the two leads is undeniable. Plus, it all takes place under the breathtaking Italian sun. It's sexy, stunning, and will leave you equally shattered and horny.
A Portrait of a Lady on Fire (2019)
This critically acclaimed film follows two young women set in historical France. The women meet under inconvenient circumstances considering they both have mega sexual desires for each other. But a will-they-won't-they story with suspense underscored with a beautiful romance is one that you'll be thinking about long after they roll to credits. Be sure to hold one another after this one…or just get busy and hold one another after that.
Fifty Shades of Grey (2015)
You know the story - college student meets billionaire and signs an NDA so they can have sex in his BDSM chamber. Tale as old as time right? The movie is based off of the popular novel of the same title and boy did it get the book club hot and bothered so much that they adapted it into a hugely successful movie franchise. Despite it being a predictable choice for this list, Fifty Shades of Grey might be everything you want in a sexy movie. It might even inspire you to experiment with BDSM yourself. And, if you do, WET can provide your new toys with all its lubricant needs.
Black Swan (2010)
In Natalie Portman's Oscar-winning role, she gets freaky. If you haven't seen it before, just prepare for the psychological turns this movie makes. It's not one for those with a weak stomach. If twisted and thrilling is your thing though, you'll be satisfied in more ways than one.
Chungking Express (1994)
The art direction in this film is quintessential 90s. Undeniably, one of the sexiest decades, so you're already in for a treat with this one. On top of the brilliance of the writing and style of the movie, the dynamic between all of the love interests practically edges the audience. Once it's over, you're going to have to act on all of the sexual tension you just built up.
Past Lives (2023)
Nominated for Best Picture this year, Past Lives portrays a few classic romance tropes. It follows childhood friends and them reconnecting later in life. Sometimes in a romantic way, but always with romantic feeling lingering between the both of them. It's a new film, but the timeless what-if story will have you sobbing and reaching for someone. You'll feed off of the character's chemistry and want to secure your own.
Y Tu Mamá También (2001)
If your sex life is in a rut and you want to remember what it's like to feel horny and carefree again, put on this movie. Nothing relieves stress like a road trip and sex, which this movie has plenty of. The youthful energy that surges throughout the film will reinvigorate you. We just hope you stay away from your friend's significant others. Or at least ask before you decide to make a move.
Jennifer's Body (2009)
If you've fallen into a monotonous routine with sex and you need to shake things up a bit, this movie might be just freaky enough to get you going. Jennifer's Body is campy, spooky, and pokes fun at a lot of American high school stereotypes. It also has super-hot lead actresses playing girls who will hypnotize your screen.
So this awards season, enjoy bingeing and don't forget to have your favorite WET Lube on hand to enhance your viewing experience. WET Gold Hybrid Water Based, Platinum Silicone Lubricant and WET WOW Clitoral Arousal Gel are fan favorites.
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Here are a few noteworthy lists to continue your dive into sexy films;
https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/lists/sexiest-movies-ranked/
https://time.com/4663265/sexiest-movies-of-all-time/
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Studies show that sex, particularly in the mornings, improves cognitive memory and many report starting their day this way also positively impacts their productivity. If you want to focus more at work or school, making time to have sex in the morning, might be a great way to achieve that. We think there's no harm in trying!
It's no secret that being in a safe, intimate setting with your partner makes you feel closer to them. However, many couples can get into a rut with their sexual routine, and switching things up may be the answer to this problem. Additionally, if you have kids in the house, morning sex is kid-proof. If they rely on you as their alarm system, work with yourself or your partner in taking up extra time in the morning to focus on each other before waking up the kiddos.
Starting your day off with exercise is correlated to a healthier lifestyle. By having sex in the morning, you'll be able to burn off some extra calories leaving you to feel healthy and more energized for the day ahead. If you want to try a few new positions to get your heart rate really racing, we suggest you pair it with your favorite bottle of lubricant to ensure maximum fun and pleasure.
Sleep is integral to maintaining a healthy lifestyle. Anything that can interfere with your rest, should be taken seriously. Because of this, pushing back your bedtime to have sex, while is common, does not have to be the only way to fulfill those desires. Instead, when it's time to sleep, focus on your rest so that you're ready to pounce in the morning. There's no need to sacrifice sleep for sex when you can have both.
Before you get caught up in the chaos that is the outside world, starting your day focused on yourself or your partner might be most grounding. Without any other distractions, you will be able to be more present and fully enjoy catering to your partner, or yourself, strengthening your bond. Saving sex to the end of the day might make things more draining after you've already exhausted your energy and emotion. Avoid that by making sex a priority first thing.
Bottom line, is that if you can add in another time to prioritize your sexual well-being, it can have countless positive effects on your physical and mental health. We've discussed in previous articles how sex can be of service to you or your partner if you want to improve your mental state. And in a world that still is present of groups who use sex to shame us or make us feel guilty, we are here to assure you that not only is the desire for sex completely natural and nothing to be ashamed of, but you should make it a priority. And if you're doubting all of this research, tomorrow morning wake up, grab some lube for maximum pleasure and try it for yourself. We can almost guarantee you that it will leave you wanting more.
If kids are in the mix and you have a full house, treat each other to a night out - without the kiddos. Book your sitter in advance, snag a reservation for that restaurant you’ve been wanting to try but haven’t had time to check out, and book a beautiful hotel room while you’re at it. Be as loud as you want, without the worry of kids interrupting your fun. Enhance the experience with Wet Wow Max O Clitoral Arousal Gel .5 Oz.
Valentine’s Day is a great time to show your partner how much you appreciate them by booking a trip. Whether it’s a weekend-er or a weeklong cruise, planning a little getaway for you and your boo is always a win. You won’t have to worry about anyone else’s schedule other than yours and your loved one. We anticipate you won’t be leaving your room much, so don’t stress about the destination. And don’t forget to bring your favorite lube to enhance the pleasure you will be giving each other. Wet 3 Pack Sampler (1Oz. Essential95, Platinum, Strawberry) a perfect addition to your travel plans.
Massage therapy is a great way to relieve stress - both physical and emotional, which is why it would be a perfect gift for your partner. If either one of you is pregnant it’s an extra treat. According to UT Medical Center, massages can lead to improved sleep which is necessary no matter which stage of the pregnancy you’re at. After the massage, treat yourself and your loved one to a feast filled with all of those pregnancy cravings! Delicious food and your favorite sex position are on the menu for V-Day.
If you’re engaged to be with someone forever, they better know all your fetishes and fantasies before committing. Valentine’s Day is as good as day as any to get them that sex toy or costume they’ve mentioned wanting to try. And, if they haven’t mentioned anything yet, now is a great time to have a sexy, deep talk. After you’ve divulged all your intimate desires to each other, take a trip to your local sex store and grab whatever strikes your fancy. After tonight, you’ll be looking forward to the honeymoon, we’re sure of it. Perfect for all your explorations Wet Uranus Silicone-Based Anal Sex Lubricant.
If you’ve been with your partner for years now, you know their comfort level when it comes to sex. Treat Valentine's Day as an opportunity to show off just how much you know them. Make them something homemade, write them a love letter, or gift them something they’ve pointed out to you before but haven’t bought for themselves. After showing them how much you appreciate them on an emotional level, show them how much they mean to you in bed. Bring the lube and your imagination. To give can be so much better than receiving.
Get tech creative with your long-distance love. Yes, remote controlled sex toys exist and there are many to choose from. If you’re doing long-distance and can’t afford to make the trip to see your special someone, plan with your partner a Facetime call to celebrate your love. Then add fun toys that can be controlled by your partner from a different location, you will be able to please each other from afar. Make the most of being apart by connecting with technology. Put on a show that will drive each other crazy.
If you’re serious about the person you’re spending time with and you’re ready to level up your relationship, don’t skimp out. Plan a candlelit dinner or romantic picnic (sexy attire, maybe blindfolds). Grab a bottle (or two) of champagne and flowers that you know your partner will adore. Put in the effort on the date (and in bed) to show them you’re serious and committed to them only.
Have fun! If it’s your first Valentine’s Day together, take the pressure off of it and decide to let loose. Things like candy bras, vibrators, or making something like a lube bouquet will ease the tension of the seriousness the holiday can bring.
If you’re in a situationship this Valentine’s and you’re not sure where things are heading, don’t over-do it. Sending them a flirty text or pic is enough to acknowledge the holiday and might spice up your night if you’re both game.
Don’t overcomplicate a non-serious hook up. If the holiday has you feeling a sort of way, there’s no shame in hitting up that person who you can have casual, fun sex with. Just remember not to skimp on the lube, and be safe, of course.
Being single does not mean you have to sit around and do nothing. Show yourself some love with a little TLC. Order delivery from your favorite takeout spot, light some candles, and take a nice long bath or shower. After you’re full and relaxed, hop into something cozy and pleasure yourself or just cuddle up, remembering to give thanks to the most important person in your life. Don’t forget WET Gold Luxury Hybrid Water Silicone Blend.
Our friends are there for us in good times and bad and deserve to be showered with affection just as our partners are. Celebrate the holiday with a group of friends by sharing your favorite lube, sex toy or naughty game with your pals. It’s a great way to expand everyone’s knowledge about the latest adult products and spend Valentine’s Day with people you love.
Along with a great orgasm, we hope this list relieves some stress from your life this Valentine’s Day. Think of it as an opportunity to be a giver. Be generous with your words, affection, and in bed. We have a feeling if you give generously, you’ll be receiving just as well. #WET #JustAddSex]]>While the above are symptoms of depression, many mental health issues share similar symptoms and causes. Depression and other mental health issues including anxiety and bipolar disorder are linked to stress and often lead to a lack of sexual desire, according to the National Library of Medicine. This is important to highlight since physical intimacy has been linked to improving stress levels and quality of sleep - both key elements in improving overall mental health.
According to Resources to Recover Organization, our brains release chemicals such as dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin during sex. These neurotransmitters boost feelings of happiness and cut down our body’s stress levels.
Orgasms before bed are also known to improve our sleep quality. In a recent study conducted by Front Public Health, both orgasms achieved with a partner and self-stimulation lead to improvements in overall sleep patterns, which in turn, lowers our stress and boosts our emotional well-being. After all, sleep deficiency is linked to depression and suicide, noted by the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute and should be addressed when it comes to our holisitc health.
If you’re burning calories during sex, you’re more likely to experience the benefits that come from physical exercise, including the boosting of energy levels.
Even smaller acts of physical intimacy including hand holding, cuddling, and hugging can release endorphins into our system that calm us down. The chemicals that are often released during these acts of affection reduces the secretion of cortisol, high levels of which are often linked to depression, according to Penn Medicine.
While it’s important to note that sex can improve our mental state, symptoms of disorders like depression or anxiety, can manifest into impaired arousal or sexual satisfaction. Additionally, many medications used to treat these issues can also have an effect on a person’s libido. For example, according to the International Soceity for Sexual Medicine, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), a type of antidepressant, may interfere with a person’s sexual functioning.
Other mental health disorders including ADD and ADHD and medications used to treat them, may also lead to similar effects. In fact, according to a 2020 study, females with ADHD reported having lower sexual arousal and satisfaction than those without. While some stimulants used to treat attention deficit disortder can improve sex lives by helping individuals be less distracted, there are often reports of varying libido levels that can cause either an uptick in a person’s sex drive or lower it.
It is imperative to discuss the possible symptoms and side effects of medicine when addressing mental health, but it’s equally important to understand that this is normal. Many folks experience low sexual arousal and addressing those things is not shameful, but can be a path forward in helping to stimulate those desires once again.
Talk With Your Doctor
Harvard Medical School notes that reducing drug dosage on medication may subside sexual side effects. Also chat with a doctor about switching drugs as certain ones may affect your bodily chemicals such as dopamine more than others. If you struggle with erectile dysfunction while on medication, talk with your doctor about adding a medication to your routine. For example, adding a drug such as bupropion if you take SSRIs may restore your ability to orgasm.
Explore New Fantasies and Kinks
Pleasure doesn’t always have to come from traditional means of sex. Finding new ways to stimulate yourself or your partner may increase your sexual desires and help you rediscover your own sexual identity. There is no shame in exploring new kinks or fetishes as long as you consent with yourself and your partner. If you’re nervous to begin exploring though, we recommend reducing the pressure by trying out new potential kinks on your own. This could include anything from costumes to feet play and more. Don’t limit yourself!
Communicate/Schedule Sex
If you notice that you experience certain sexual side effects at particular times of the day, take note of it. It is common that more pronounced side effects take place within the first few hours of taking certain medications. If this is true for you and it’s cutting into sexy time, chat with your doctor about changing the time you take your medications. It may also be a good idea to schedule sex with yourself or your partners around the times you feel the most desirable. And, if you have discussed taking “drug holidays” with your doctor and they have recommended it, plan a weekend or a day for when you think you won’t need certain medicine. When approved by your doctor or therapist, planning this out can restore your sex drive for the time being.
Sex can benefit the body in so many ways and yet none will be realized if it does not feel good for you or your partner. Being honest with yourself and your partner about what feels good and when is imperative to a thriving sex life. Whether you need to take a step back from the physical stuff, or you want to grab that jumbo bottle of lube stat, communicating your emotional and physical needs is key to ensuring a happier, healthier life.
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January is a great time to reflect and manifest the things you hope to achieve in the upcoming months. We all want to improve our mental and physical health and sex can help with both of those things. Studies not only show how you can burn calories with sex, but correlate intimacy to a longer life span. And if that's not motivation enough, having sex in new and exciting places is sure to get your blood pumping and your heart happy.
Coming out of the busy holiday season and looking at the year ahead, it's a good idea to start planning trips now so that you can always have something to look forward to. That's why we've compiled the ultimate JUST ADD SEX destination bucket list, with suggestions for everyone - no matter what or who you're into.
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National Parks (Yosemite, Yellowstone, Glacier, etc)
If you like to get down and dirty, there's no better place than the outdoors. And lucky for you, National Parks are a great place to explore during the day, and at night, a great place to explore sexually. We recommend booking campsites here early since they go quickly, especially on weekends. But, if you have extra time and money to spare, there are a lot of rentals near National Parks that offer more private amenities, perfect if you want to get loud. In nature, just add WET Naturally Lube.
Jamaica (specifically under a waterfall)
The Caribbean is a romantic destination for a reason - it has beautiful natural landscapes practically anywhere you turn. We recommend visiting Jamaica for its falls - and if you're feeling up to it, get frisky in the water. Remember to pack that WET 1oz travel size lube to take with you, to ensure yourself multiple splashes.
France (because, duh)
You know we couldn't let this list go by without including the country where the city of love is located! But it's more than that. The French know better than anyone that sex doesn't always have to be about lovemaking, and there is something tastefully horny about a cigarette and a glass of wine. While Paris is timeless for a reason, cities like Aix in Province and Nice in the south of France are filled with romantic excursions. Just picture having wild sex in a lavender field or on a white-sand beach! The best part about being in France is that anywhere feels like you're in a romance novel, so pop the champagne and get busy wherever you are. And while you're at it, throw on a French film - you'll learn quickly just how well they know about good sex.
Somewhere Sentimental (the place of your first date/kiss, etc)
You don't always have to travel across the globe to be romantic. Sometimes the most romantic gestures are the most thoughtful ones. If you're looking to have a romantic and intimate sexcapade, we suggest taking your lover(s) to a place that is special to you. Maybe it's the place you first met, your secret hideaway, or where you hope to start a family one day. Either way, the thought is what will make it extra special. And if your partner gets off on that sentimental stuff, you're in for an especially intimate time. We're betting they probably won't be able to get their hands off you. Enjoy delicious oral play with WET Strawberry Lube.
Private Yacht
You've got money to blow and you're hoping to get some blowing in return? Or at least the equivalent of that. It's stereotypical, but it's luxurious and private. On a private yacht, the crashing waves will sound out all your screams in bed. And even if it doesn't, it doesn't matter because what is more private than a boat to yourself with no one else around. And while you're docked, might as well invite the captain to join in on the fun. The more the merrier.
Tokyo, Japan
Let's face it, any Four Seasons will do if you get wet at the sight of money. But there's something about being in a bustling city, with new fashion and culinary trends on every block that just screams RICH. While you can find affordable hotels and accommodations while visiting Tokyo, if you really want to splurge, the city is home to some of the most expensive hotels in the world including the Bulgari Hotel and Aman Tokyo. Splurge with WET Platinum Silicone Lube.
Cologne, Germany
While Berlin is known for its sex clubs and night scenes and was a top contender for this list, Cologne, Germany was listed in Lust Magazine's as the most sexually liberated city in the world in 2023. The liberal city holds over 23 LGBTQ events each year and its population is filled with many open, like-minded folks who share similar outlooks on gender and sexual expression. If you're trying to get freaky, this is one city that not only won't shame you for it, but may want to join in. Don't forget WET Anal Lube is perfect to bring your experience to the next level.
Your Favorite Dive Bar
Sex destinations don't always have to involve a ton of money. In fact, some of the best places to get freaky won't cost you a thing. Try role playing at your favorite dive bar, or, if you're traveling, a local's favorite. After you're done making eyes across the room with your partner, sneak away to a dark corner or bathroom and get to it. And since you'll be somewhere with crowds, make it a fun game - the first one to make the other cum wins.
Portugal
Portugal made this list not only because it's an underrated country to travel to, but it also ranks high as one of the safest countries to travel if you're flying solo. So if you're not sure what you want, but you know you want to be safe, there are plenty of cities in Portugal to explore. Lisbon, one of the country's major cities, is consistently ranked high on Nomad's list for top Tinder cities. It also has a thriving nightlife with friendly and diverse locals. If you're lucky, you'll have discovered what makes you tick by the time you're returning home.
Amsterdam, Netherlands
If you want to learn more about sex there's no better place to start than Amsterdam! This city is home to the famous Red-Light District (aka De Wallen), a central neighborhood known for its sex positive outlook. The city and culture here prides itself on being open-minded and accepting. It offers sex shows and sex museums if you are curious about learning more in a judgment-free zone.
Make a resolution to explore sex in a new environment. We wish you all a happy and safe, sexy New Year! And always remember to #justaddsex
Okay, maybe not forever, but it's been around for centuries. We know that might be surprising to hear, since in this century, lube has been catered to mostly men and mostly people trying to start families - as it's located under the 'Family Planning' section in many drugstores. But let us tell you, even the Ancient Greeks knew that wasn't the only use for lube. The same culture that brought us the Olympics and sex, was the same one that recorded to be one of the first societies to use olive oil as a sexual lubricant.
From the Ancient Greeks to our current media's take on it, here's a brief history of lube. (We're betting, you're going to want to try it for yourself after reading what it's capable of.)
350 BCE - The Early Greeks recorded using olive oil for sexual lubrication, specifically for anal sex. Aristotle himself refers to lube in his text, The History of Animals, "if the parts be smooth conception is prevented." While the Greeks were on to something here, they definitely were wrong about the contraception part. While lube makes sex more enjoyable, it does not prevent pregnancy. And, if you're going to use lube on a latex-condom, we recommend getting a bottle of WET Platinum Silicone Lube since using olive oil would only erode the material.
1603 BCE - Yams and clove oil. Not ingredients for your next meal, but maybe for your next snack, wink wink. It worked for the societies in Japan that used both as lubricants for anal sex. The Edo period in Japan was known to use a yam-filled formula called 'tororo-jiru' to provide lubrication. Clove oil was also a popular ingredient to help satisfy and is still a popular ingredient in modern formulas due to its muscle relaxing properties.
1872 - The first petroleum jelly was patented by American chemist Robert Chesebrough. He marketed it as 'Vaseline' which is still a household staple today. While it was never intended to be used for sex, the components of vaseline are similar to what societies used before, to smooth out their sex kinks. We want to make it clear though, Vaseline is not to be used for this purpose, if you want to glide in and out, there are plenty of WET Lubes that will do the trick.
1904 – The first commercially manufactured lubricant arrives on the market.
1989 – WET Platinum Lube arrives on the scene! Over the last 30 years WET has continued to expand and innovate in the personal lubricant industry.
Modern Day - Lube today is sold worldwide. Its wide variety of formulas and ingredients helps us pick the best product that will work for our desires. (If you want to learn more about the best type of lube for you, check out our recent blog posts.) But even though this is the case, there are still many common misconceptions about lube that hold consumers back from wanting to try it. So many of the myths and associations with lube stem from rumors and media portrayal.
Lube in Media - It's pretty rare that lube is seen in the cultural zeitgeist. The lack of lube in porn videos (when they are almost, always using it on-set) gives viewers this unrealistic expectation that lube isn't needed to have good sex. And, when lube is mentioned in media, it's rarely positive. In the 2007 film, Superbad, Jonah Hill's character actively makes fun of Michael Cera's character for being a weirdo who brought lube to a party. There are also plenty of songs from pop stars such as Nicki Minaj and Cardi B who rap about natural vaginal wetness and it being an asset to their image. While these songs and mentions in media are sex positive, they promote harmful stereotypes that people need to be naturally wet in order to be feminine or desirable, when in fact, many folks struggle with sexual friction.
Many folks have taken on this idea that if they're not creating enough natural lubricant, there is something wrong with them - spoiler alert: there isn't! According to Women's Health Concern, close to 20 percent of women ages 18-50 struggle with vaginal dryness. Despite media portrayal, there is nothing wrong with using lube. In fact, it's sexy to know what you want in bed and come prepared for it. If you know that dryness or friction is something you want to avoid, bringing lube like you would a sex toy or a condom, is a sign of confidence. And it's a way of showing your partner that you're here for a good time.
Many folks think that turning to lube is admitting to defeat. If they can't arouse their partner enough, they're doing something wrong and it takes them out of the mood all together. If you're worried about getting your partner aroused, lube might be a great option for you! That way you don't have to worry about making sure you're both in the right state before penetration. You can simply communicate with your partner and assure the other that you're horny for them without the guessing game.
Exploring sex is a natural human desire that's been around since the dawn of time. Even though there are harmful stigmas that suppress our sexual desires and expectations, we are here to assure you that wanting to have good sex is 100 percent natural. And WET Lube has amazing options for you to try. Heighten your next sexual experience with WET Lube. #justaddsex
]]>Many couples struggle with getting their partners the perfect gift. There's no shame in getting something that's a sure thing and what's more sure than something that aims to please? Entice your partner with some playful exploration. WET Hybrid Lube is a popular choice for couples. Let your partner know it's time to open up that special gift of sex.
You've finished cookies, and you are full on fudge, but you still want to indulge…we know just the thing guaranteed to satisfy – Wet Flavored Lubes. It's the perfect Delicious Oral sweet treat to end the night or start the morning with. Wet Flavored Lubes come in a variety of flavors, including Wet Strawberry, Wet Watermelon, Wet Cupcake, Wet Whipped Cream and more. So good you'll want seconds.
You're back home for the holidays and surprise, you are stuck in your childhood bedroom. But now you're all grown up and it's time to reclaim your space. Here's what you do to make things as exciting and smooth as possible, you grab your favorite Wet Lube and your new holiday toy and create new sexual memories to treasure.
The holidays can be stressful, so much to do. This year add a special someone to your TODO list, there's nothing that takes the pressure off like some physical exertion. Enjoy your favorite sex fantasy with WET Tingling lube and let that stress slip away. You will alleviate those anxieties and feel a sense of satisfaction so you can focus on celebrating the rest of your Holidays.
Wrapping gifts seems to be never ending task during peak holiday season. It can get monotonous, so why not break it up a little. After you've finished wrapping, you can unwrap each other and get to it with Wet Naturally Lube for ultimate satisfaction and heightened play time.
Get ready for your holiday road trip, its frosty outside and warming each other is a necessity. With Wet Delicious Oral Play Strawberry, you can have a fun treat before the events start. And, since the lube is water based, it's an easy clean-up - no need to risk being charged for a mess if you're driving a rental car. And, if you're flying for the holidays, the Wet Lubricants come in handy 1oz. travel sizes.
If you're going to be on a getaway, why not make it a true holiday? A hotel tub/shower can be such a thrilling place to enjoy your time away from home. Sex in the water can get tricky though, since water wicks away our natural lubricants. Lucky for you, Wet Uranus Silicone Lube is the perfect solution. With the silicone based formula, it will keep you wet and ready to go.
No matter the reason, tis the season to JUST ADD SEX. Wet lubes can make the holidays all the more magical. Don't be shy and grab some lube before you get busy, there's tradition to be upheld, after all!
With all things regarding our bodies, we need to take extra consideration when selecting products that we and/or our partners will be applying. That being said, the type of lube you will want to use will depend on what you are using it for. The right lube for the right situation will help maximize your pleasure.
Water Based Lubricants:
Water based lubricants are a versatile and safe option when it comes to sexual intercourse and self-pleasure. They are safe to use on those silicone toys you keep in your bedside dresser (or your BDSM chamber, there’s no kink shaming here, go off) and have the easiest clean-up. However, you’ll probably want to use a few pumps throughout, since the water can only stay so slippery for so long.
Good for: silicone toys, condoms, white sheets
We recommend: Wet Water Based Sex Lubricant
Silicone Based Lubricants:
Silicone based lubricants are popular for a reason: a little goes a long way. If the goal in your pleasure is longevity, this might be the best option for you. The silicone also has the benefit of lasting longer in water, which makes it perfect for bath and shower sex. Even though it’s a great option for those of us with sensitive skin, silicone based lubricants should be avoided with the use of silicone toys as it can cause deterioration over time.
Good for: shower sex, anal, condoms, sex marathon-ers
We recommend: WET Platinum Luxury Silicone Lubricant; WET Uranus Silicone Based Anal Sex Lubricant
Hybrid Based Lubricants:
Hybrid based lubricants usually contain a mix of both water and silicone ingredients. Think of it as the ‘best of both worlds’ formula. With the silicone in play, it will last you longer than a typical water based lubricant would. And with the water being present, it may be less of a task when it comes to clean up.
Good for: glass toys, latex condoms, butt stuff, bath play
We recommend: Wet Luxury Hybrid Water Silicone Blend Lubricant
Natural Based Lubricants:
Natural based lubricants are formulated partially or wholly from natural biological sources such as aloe plant. Along with providing ease to sexual pleasure, the natural ingredients in these can provide other benefits. Aloe, for example, hydrates and moisturizes the skin, with healing properties that can add an extra layer of calm and relief to that pleasure. Not all natural lubes are formulated the same though, so keep a close eye out to see if it is compatible with any toys or condoms you may be using.
Good for: sex with dedicated partner, self-care, organic-conscious minds
We recommend: Wet Naturally 95% Organic Aloe Vera Based Lube
If you’ve read the above and think maybe a few of these types of lubricants will work for your desires, test them out! Wet also recommends testing them on a small patch of skin or toy before use, but once that is done, make a night (or weekend of it). Grab a variety of lubes and have fun with it. Different positions, locations, toys - whatever floats your boat. You’ll be able to tell what feels best when you try them out solo or with partner(s). And, when you’re really looking to shake things up, we offer a line of flavored lubricants that are destined to add some extra fun to your Delicious Oral Play. Check out Wet flavor varieties today.
We hope we’ve answered a few of your wonderings about lube, what it is, and which is best for you. Lube is such a simple way to increase pleasure and desire during a completely natural and proven beneficial act. Now go on and grab some lube so you can brag about your amazing sex life or write about that mind-blowing ‘O’ you just experienced. You have our full support.
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]]>Despite the fact that many women have long experienced pain and discomfort during intercourse due to vaginal dryness, for a long time there has been a stigma on vaginal dryness that has unfortunately led to shame and embarrassment for many women.
The assumption has been that female partners should be turned on by simple gestures and touches from their partners, and when the arousal does not happen easily, female partners often blame themselves for their inability to become easily aroused.
The feelings of guilt and shame that some women may face as a result of vaginal dryness and low sex drives only make it more difficult for them to produce natural vaginal lubrication and aid in reducing friction.
Contrary to what the general public may believe about the female sex drive, many studies have shown that vaginal dryness and a decline in sex drives have increased in recent decades and very commonly impact the lives of many women.
Improper sex education has added to the misconception about female sex drives, leaving the majority of people misinformed about female sex hormones and vaginal dryness.
Some may be unaware of what can cause women to have a low sex drive and experience vaginal dryness. The greatest held belief is that women can only experience vaginal dryness during and after menopause, but common causes impact the lives of females of all ages.
One of the most common reasons for pain and discomfort during intercourse is vaginal dryness– a lack of lubrication that leads to painful sex for many women. This occurrence may make it extremely difficult for women to get or remain aroused during sex. Other symptoms may include uncomfortable itching, burning, irritation or loss of interest in sex.
The most common causes of vaginal dryness include:
Other causes may be related to stress, depression, cigarette-smoking and medical treatments such as chemotherapy. No matter the cause or reason, anyone with a vagina can experience dryness, and it is a very common occurrence that the majority of vagina holders experience at some point during their lifetimes.
Vaginal dryness can happen at any age; however, it is most commonly experienced by females during and after menopause. Recent studies show that 50% of menopausal and post-menopausal females experience increased vaginal dryness.
For many women, having sex after menopause can become increasingly uncomfortable and painful due to hormone changes that affect libido and sex. For women who are or are not having sex, lubricants can and should be used to provide necessary moisture.
Similarly to aging skin, the menopausal vagina needs to be moisturized regularly. Lubricating the vagina is an excellent and low-risk way to provide moisture.
For those who experience discomfort from dryness, certain types lubricants can be applied multiple times per day and applied repeatedly as needed for longer-lasting moisture.
Water-based lubricants require more frequent application than silicone-based personal lubricants, but finding the right lube is an exciting matter of testing and trying different types to find the perfect one for you.
Having postpartum sex may be difficult for many reasons. The body and mind are simultaneously going through many changes that may affect female sex organs and sex drive.
Childbirth comes with some temporary hormonal imbalances as well as some life-changing truths (like becoming responsible for a brand new human). Motherhood is accompanied with mental, emotional and physical changes that come with no manuscript for how to cope.
Among the many changes the body may endure after pregnancy, vaginal dryness is one of the most common. Looking after a newborn or infant may lead to a decrease in anyone’s sex-drive, and physical changes only add to emotional postpartum distress.
In addition to emotional stress, postpartum intercourse might cause physical pain or be highly uncomfortable. About 40% of women surveyed have reported dryness even up to 6 months after giving birth.
Lubricants provide necessary moisture that is good to use during sex… and not during sex. If postpartum dryness causes pain or irritation for your sensitive skin, it is recommended to apply a soothing lubricant to help relieve such symptoms of discomfort.
After giving birth, the vagina may never fully recover to prepartum status; however, frequent lubrication reduces the amount of time it takes for the vagina to return to prepartum status as much as possible, and sex lube use may be continued for an enhanced sexual experience well after prepartum status returns.
Oral contraceptive pills are commonly used for preventing pregnancy and other issues related to female menstruation.
Side effects of the pill vary depending on the type of pill and the person taking them. Some people may notice the effects of the pill right away and others may not notice a change at all.
Depending on the type of pill, birth-control pills can have negative effects on libido that lead to vaginal dryness. Pills with lower estrogen levels seem to have the greatest impact on vaginal lubrication and may lead to dryness, causing pain and discomfort during intercourse.
Frequent lubrication can help relieve discomfort associated with the pill without causing an adverse reaction.
Thankfully, there is a proven and immediate solution for treating vaginal dryness.
Lubricants may provide moisture to the vagina and eliminate dryness, allowing sex to be more pleasurable and painless. Lubricating the vagina can provide moisture during and apart from sexual intercourse. Lubricants provide rapid relief from dryness and are recommended for frequent use.
Note: Water-based lubricants require more frequent application, whereas silicone lubes are longer lasting.
]]>Remember water slides? Remember riding them all day at the water park, having the time of your life slipping and sliding around until you landed in a pool of water?
Well, I like my water slides how I like my sex: thrilling, adventurous, and wet.
Who ever wanted a dry water slide? And who ever wanted dry sex? *cringe*
If you’re not treating your sex life like a day at the water park, then you need an all-access pass into the wonderful world of lube.
While many women are looking for a sex lube to help out with issues of dryness or reduce friction, others simply introduce it into their sex lives for a new sensation.
Making sure you’re actually having the incredible sex your body deserves is Priority #1. World-renowned Sex Therapist Dr. Holly Richmond knows all the good that lubricant can do: “For a lot of women, if they’re not using lube, it’s not pleasurable. So you can’t really call that good sex.”
Lube makes sexual intercourse easier and feel way better; in short, lube is the quickest and easiest way to take your sex life from average to mind-blowing.
If you’ve ever had issues with your vagina not lubricating as well as it should, you’re not alone! 17% of women between the ages of 18-50 have experienced vaginal dryness during sex, so this is not at all an uncommon problem, and there are several possible factors why:
Like we just said, using sexual lube lets you feel less anxious about how wet you’re getting down there, which is just right for trying new things!
New sex positions are tantalizing and often pretty naughty, but we all have different tastes and might not like something we decided to let have a shot.
But with lubricant, it’s never going to be due to being too dry, so it’s the perfect way to judge all positions equally. Butt stuff may not be that out of reach with a bit of anal lube.
Some of the best sexual positions to try with lubricant include (but are certainly not limited to):
There’s a lot we’re proud of at Wet, but one of our favorite accomplishments is making flavored lubricants that actually taste really freaking good.
Flavored lubes are a super easy way to spice up your sex life without even doing all that much. And unlike other companies, all of Wet’s flavored lubricants are made with no sugar, taste like they’re supposed to, and are delicious.
Whether you’re feeling a little fruity, sweet, or want to try something really different, Wet’s got you covered.
Same logic about feeling wet during sexual activity applies to condoms, because why just stop at the penis? Lube up a man wearing a condom just the same as if he wasn’t - protected sex doesn’t have to be dry or boring sex!
Or use it for some enhanced “Me Time” by lubing up your toys for an even better “Me time.” You did good making an effort to give yourself some self love, so why not make it the best it can be?
Now this is important: not all lubes can be used with all sexual products or purposes. For starters, oil based lubricants will degrade a latex condom, and boy you will get screwed in more ways than one!
Regarding sex toys, most are made of silicone, which should never be used with similarly silicone based lubricants, as the friction between the two will harden the slippery lubricant, and do damage to your toys’ surface. Instead, experts recommend using water based personal lubricants with silicone toys for maximum safety and pleasure.
If you’re ready to Get Wet™ but aren’t sure what lubricants are best for you, we recommend you start with Wet’s extensive industry-leading line of lubricants. Shop online here!
]]>No if’s, and’s or but’s about it — lube makes sex feel so much better. Every part of you is supercharged with kinetic sensations, making an already euphoric act even more electrifying experience. However, if you end up choosing the wrong lube tube for you and your partner's sensitive skin down there and physical needs, you won't be able to enjoy the product to its full potential.
That’s no bueno.But don't get discouraged: This is a problem that's very easy to correct! It may be time to try a hybrid type of lubricant. You just may find that it’s exactly what you need to truly amp up your sex life. Wait, what!? Hybrid lube?Yes, my dear, and it's a game changer.
Allow me to introduce you to Wet® Gold Hybrid™, a new, premium personal lubricant that is both a waster based lubricant and silicone based lube blend.
Yes ladies and gentlemen, imagine this, Wet®Platinum® and Wet® Original Waterbased™ had a wild night, they peeled each other’s labels off, things got hot and heavy, they forgot to use a condom (naughty-naughty) and BAM! Next thing yah know…a star is born. Yep, that’s kinda what it’s like.
As its name suggests, a "hybrid" lubricant, like Wet® Gold Hybrid™, combines the best features of water-based lube with those of silicone. Just like any other lube with H₂O as its primary ingredient, it is light yet viscous and therefore very easy to apply.
But since it is made with the highest-quality silicones, including dimethicone and cyclopentasiloxane, Wet® Gold Hybrid™ will last far longer than a lube made primarily with water.
This means that hybrid lubes would be ideal for your more adventurous sexual activities: butt stuff or any anal play, doing it in the shower, pool or hot tub, or simply going for hours on end with few (if any) breaks. But when you finally are all done, washing off the substance is easy-peasy — it won't be sticky or potentially leave residue on your nether regions the way some pure silicone lubes can.
So, in short, it’s like getting all the benefits of both water based lubricant and silicone based lubricant (this would include most anal sex lube) and almost none of the drawbacks in one miraculous bottle.
Of course you do!
Using lube doesn’t mean anything is wrong with your sex life. It just means you like amazing sex!Water slides are fun, right? But how much fun are they when you take away the water? Not fun at all unless you fancy concrete burns on your bum—um, no thank you.
Having sex without lube is kind of the same thing, sometimes natural lubricant just isn’t enough to keep you slipping and sliding with ease for as long as you would like. Things below start getting more dry, the friction builds up and before you know it, your naughty bits feel like your bum would on that dry water slide.
Ouch!
Not only does it prevent and reduce friction, anal lube or like were focusing on hybrid based personal lubricant enhances your every sensation and takes your pleasure to all new heights.
So, do you really need lube?
Let’s find out...Do you want deeper penetration?
Do you want to be able to keep going for longer?
Do love mind blowing orgasms?
Do you have sex?
If you said “yes” to even one of those, the answer is “Ohh yess”, you do really need lube.
Point blank, you just should.
But if you aren’t convinced yet, knowing what lube not to use is definitely a good place to start.
Let’s say your current lube is water-based, maybe it dries too quickly and soon becomes a pain in the... crotch (literally), you might want to switch to a quick lube fix that's made with quality silicone.
(Just to get it out of the way: One alternative you absolutely should not pivot to, is switching whatever your original lube was, is oil-based lube. We've pointed out the shortcomings of this lube variety before, but they're big enough that it bears repeating. The biggest problem is the damage they do to latex condoms, but oil lubes also pose a variety of infection risks for women and can seriously stain sheets, comforters, floors, clothes and other surfaces.)
On the other end of the spectrum, maybe you are annoyed by the fact that silicone lubricant is harder to wash off — or that it can't be used safely alongside silicone sex toys — should probably go with a lube made with a water-base.But what if you can't decide between those two lube types because you're torn by the balance of their pros and cons? You need something that walks the line between the two, guess what that means?
If you've never been able to settle on a water-based or silicone lubricant before you should give Wet® Gold Hybrid™ a try to enjoy the best of both worlds.
Sex is supposed to be wet and wild — you know that. The wetter the better? Hands down. That’s something we can all agree on.
And even though lube is generally considered by those who have a problem getting primed for sexual activity, it’s actually for everyone. Whether you’re looking for some extra assistance in avoiding uncomfortable friction or you just want to spice things up in the bedroom with your partner, personal lubricant is your ticket to sexy and sensual satisfaction. Saliva may help you start setting the mood for you and your partner, but that natural moisture can only do so much.
Are you ready to slip into the best sex of your life? It’s time to grab your lover and a tube of lube and head to the bedroom.
When it comes to him, we tend to focus on the penis. Granted this is great, but let’s not forget, testicles need love too! Try something different, before he fills you with his holiday spirit, spread a little joy of your own.During a blowjob or hand job, squirt a little lube in your hand and stroke, massage, or cup his twins.
You can even play around with different speeds, grips, or rhythms until you find what really makes his spirits bright.
It reduces unwanted dryness.The most obvious reason to use lube in the first place is the relief from dryness downstairs. Between stress, hormonal issues or the simple idea of just not feeling it when it’s time to go in on your lover, there are dozens of reasons why you might be finding it difficult to get wet and stay wet during sex. That’s why lube makes perfect sense in this scenario — it’s your cure for feeling a bit bare down there.
No matter your gender, age range, sexuality or preference for number of partners, lube can be enjoyed by all. That also means you can place it, pretty comfortably, anywhere your heart desires that feels great to be stimulated during sex. So don’t knock yourself down because you're older or feel embarrassed to admit you want to give it a shot — grab a bottle to try out a sample size of satisfaction. difficult to get wet and stay wet during sex. That’s why lube makes perfect sense in this scenario — it’s your cure for feeling a bit bare down there.
Sure, lube can be very helpful when you just can’t seem to get wet down there, but that doesn’t mean it’s the only time you should use the stuff. Personal lubricant is great for making sex wetter and more intensely pleasure than ever before. It even comes in edible flavors and additional sensations to step things up yet another notch!
Having sex with condoms on? That’s a great way to avoid pregnancy and STI’s, but it’s also one way to reduce natural wetness and make those fun positions feel less pleasurable. This doesn’t mean you should get rid of the condoms, however — practicing safe sex is always smart. It’s just even smarter to add some lube while you’re wrapped up! It’s perfect for combatting the discomfort you or your partner might feel as a result of using wearing a condom.
“Lube reduces the friction of condoms, making them less likely to break, and it reduces microscopic tears through which STI pathogens could enter the body,”McDevitt, PhD and sexologist shared with Health magazine.
When was the last time you and your partner really spiced things up during sex? Between dirty talk and roleplaying to having sex in an out-of-the-ordinary location, there are plenty of different options to mix it up and have the best sex of your life. If you’re not quite ready to play dominatrix yet, though, lube is a great stepping stone for changing things up with your partner. Just add it to foreplay for a sweet and subtle gesture to really get things going.
In addition to water- and silicone-based lube, you can even try a hybrid option that meets all of your wants and needs in the bedroom (the silkiness of silicone plus the versatility of water). No matter how your skin reacts to certain ingredients, there’s an edible flavors re that’ll make it easy to lube up and feel nothing but pleasure.
When it comes to choosing the best lube for you and your lover, it’s all about personal preference.
An option like Wet® Water Based Premium Lubricant™ has a gel-like consistency due to its industry-leading silicone that leaves the skin feeling smooth, not sticky. A liquid-based option like Wet® Naturals® is a bit more gentle, using water to achieve wetness, which is perfect for someone with sensitive skin.
It’s also important to consider certain types of lube for certain types of sex. Since water-based lubes are water-soluble, they dissolve quickly. That means you need to reapply often if you plan on having a long, hefty sex sesh. Silicone lube holds up better for those long passionate nights.
Want to get a little kinky while trying to get pregnant? There’s actually lube that can make this special occasion more thrilling and successful. Today, various lubes available are sperm-friendly, paraben-free, glycerin-free and Ph-balanced, which are perfect for conceiving. Additives in certain lubes can actually impact the sperm’s ability to get to the egg and successfully reproduce. An option like Wet® Organics™ may be perfect if you’re ready to grow your family.
By contrast, if you’re trying to avoid pregnancy, lubes that are recommended while using condoms are a must. For example, using something like coconut oil may be something to exclude from your choices. While it’s a great option for the slippery stuff, it’s likely to stain your sheets and can even lead to condom breakage. Keep this in mind before your load on this natural tropical lotion (or use any other oil-based lube, for that matter)
If you picked out your favorite option, planned a steamy night with your partner and are basically counting down the minutes until you drop your pants, don’t forget to read the lube directions. The last thing you want to do is not use enough or place it in the wrong area pre-penetration.
“As a rule, put one dollop on surface A (penis, fingers, dildo, etc.) and one dollop on surface B (anus, vagina, etc.),” suggested McDevitt to Health magazine.
In short: A little for you and a little for your partner should get the job done just fine. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t go wild with the stuff. For some, the more the better. If lube seems to be the missing piece of the puzzle to getting you and your partner off, keep it coming — pun definitely intended.
Explore some of our other lubes like our hemp oil lube, our warming lubes, and even some of our other dessert flavored lubes!