WET Introduces You to the A-Word

If you're looking to get intimate in a new way, or if you've tried it and want to enhance your experience, this brief on anal sex and how to approach it may get you to open up. Anal sex, as often as it's brought up in the adult film industry, isn't often discussed many other places, including sexual education. Many folks who engage in anal sex have limited resources on how it works, the health risks involved, the benefits, and how to prepare. Understanding the basics to anal sex is crucial for a safe and enjoyable experience. This post aims to provide an introductory guide to anal sex, including essential tips, safety measures, and resources for further learning.

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Anal sex refers to sexual activity involving the anus, which can include penetration with a penis, fingers, or sex toys. It's a practice enjoyed by individuals of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Whether you're experienced or new to it, informed consent, communication, and safety are paramount.

Why Anal Sex?


  • Pleasure and Stimulation

The anus is rich in nerve endings, which can make anal stimulation intensely pleasurable for some people. Some find the sensation of anal stimulation different from other types of sexual activity and enjoy the unique experience it offers. For individuals with a prostate, anal sex can be particularly pleasurable because the prostate, often referred to as the "male G-spot," can be stimulated through the anus. This can lead to intense orgasms and added sexual satisfaction.

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  • Enhanced Intimacy

For some individuals or couples, exploring different types of sexual activities, including anal sex, adds variety to their sex life. It can be a way to break the routine and discover new forms of pleasure. Engaging in anal sex can require a high level of trust and communication between partners, which can enhance intimacy. For some, the act itself can symbolize a deeper connection and vulnerability, strengthening the emotional bond.

  • Sexual Orientation and Preferences

Anal sex can be a preferred or primary sexual activity for some individuals, especially in the context of same-sex relationships. It can be an important part of expressing their sexual orientation and enjoying intimacy with their partner.

Despite the widespread practice of anal sex, educational resources on the topic are often limited. Anal sex is often stigmatized due to cultural, religious, and societal taboos. This stigma can prevent open discussion and education. There is also a lack of comprehensive sexual education. Many sex education programs focus primarily on heterosexual vaginal intercourse and reproductive health, neglecting other forms of sexual expression. This can lead to misinformation and myths being spread which can instill fear or judgment in those who should be free to explore their sexuality.

Anal Sex Tips & Tricks


If you are comfortable and interested in exploring anal sex, there are a few tips to keep in mind:

Communicate: Communication is essential to enhance mutual enjoyment and ensure comfort. If both partners are consenting and able to express their desires, needs, and boundaries, it is more likely to create a positive and sexy experience.

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Relax: Start off slow. Engaging in anal sex while enjoyable, can also be uncomfortable at first, especially if you or your partner are less experienced. Relaxing the muscles helps reduce pain and discomfort to ensure an enjoyable experience and increase the chances of orgasms.

Keep it clean: Proper cleaning, including the use of appropriate lubricants, helps prevent tears and injuries to the delicate tissues in the anal area. Ensuring cleanliness can make the experience more comfortable and pleasant for both partners, reducing anxiety about potential messes.

Lube is a must: Lube reduces friction and increases pleasure and movement, crucial when engaging in anal sex. The use of lube decreases the likelihood of microtears in the anal tissues which can reduce the risk of infections and other complications. If you aren't sure which lube is best for you, WET has a variety of Anal Lubes types to choose from, including Platinum, its silicone based lube.

Toys + Accessories to enhance the experience: Incorporating sex toys such as anal beads, butt plugs, dildos, and vibrators into anal play can enhance the experience and provide additional stimulation. When using these toys, it's important to choose body-safe materials, use plenty of lubricant, and maintain good hygiene. Start with smaller toys and gradually increase size for comfort. Prioritizing communication and consent with your partner ensures a positive and enjoyable experience. Try WET's thick water-based lubricant which is safe to use with condoms and sex toys.

Listen to your body: Anal sex might not be for you, or it might not be for you in the moment. It's important to listen to our bodies in any sexual experience. Sex should be enjoyable, if you're feeling good, savor it and let your partner know. If something feels off, listen to that part of yourself and adjust as needed.

 

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Educational Resources:

To further your understanding and ensure you are engaging in anal sex safely and enjoyably, consider exploring the following resources:

Books:

"The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" by Tristan Taormino: This comprehensive guide covers everything from the basics to advanced techniques, with a focus on female pleasure and comfort.
 
"Anal Pleasure & Health: A Guide for Men and Women" by Jack Morin: This book offers practical advice on achieving pleasurable anal experiences while maintaining health and safety.
 
"The Complete Anal Sex for Men" by Bill Brent: Tailored specifically for men, this book provides insights into the anatomy, techniques, and pleasure of anal sex.

Websites and Online Resources:

Websites:

Scarleteen: A website dedicated to providing accurate and inclusive sexual health information for young adults, including detailed guides on anal sex.
 
Planned Parenthood: Offers a wealth of information on sexual health, including sections on safe anal sex practices.

 

Influencers Social Media Educators:

Dr. Jess O'Reilly (@sexwithdrjess): A well-known sexologist and relationship expert who frequently discusses anal sex and other sexual health topics.
 
Tristan Taormino (@tristantaormino): An author and educator specializing in sexual health and pleasure, with a particular focus on anal sex.
 
@RealSexEd (Twitter)
A platform promoting comprehensive sex education, often addressing lesser-discussed topics like anal sex.
July 24, 2024
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